Mastering the Art of Letting Go (+ Creating Space for What Matters)

Hey, my friends! I’m Hayley Hobson and I’m so glad you’re here! Welcome to the 10/10 Podcast where I help ambitious women, like you, look + feel younger, so you can achieve a 10/10 lifestyle (and unlock financial freedom).

So you know I’m obsessed with time management, right?

Well, one aspect of high performing productivity that we don’t really talk about much is…

Letting shit go.

So I can actually have the time to go deeper into what’s important to me.

The key to this is getting crystal clear on your priorities.

In other words... 

Identifying what you can LET GO OF so that you can laser-focus on what you LOVE. 

And what’s MOVING THE NEEDLE in your life + biz. 

I mean, think about it.

You may want to do soooooo many things, but are they really worth it?

Are they worthy of your time?

Do they move the needle in your biz?

Or help you achieve your goals of where you wanna be?

So for me, I realized I get to let go of things in order to make it possible to have what I consider to be a 10/10 calendar.

And surprisingly… when I looked into what mattered to me AND what was moving the needle, there were A LOT of things I got to let go of.

I thought I’d run ya through what some of those are… and see if any of these resonate with you, too:

I’ve let go of:
  • Workaholism and the “24/7 hustle” mindset.
  • And content that’s not making an impact—such as my blog and a few FB groups I’ve had around forever.  
  • I’ve let go of the idea that I have to do everything myself if I wanted it to be done RIGHT (according to me anyway LOL). 
  • And so I’ve been delegating certain tasks (i.e. some of my social media editing/posting/management) to a content creator. 
  • I’ve also scheduled certain days as content days, so I’m not attached to my phone all day long. Every damn day.
  • And I’ve let go of other people’s ideas about how to launch and run my online courses and digital offers. 
  • Instead, I focus on what I love doing. AND what has yielded the biggest results in the past.
Honestly, I used to believe that I needed to create more. And more… and more… and more.

And to always produce new… in order to see results.

And when I didn’t see the results I expected, I told myself I needed to work harder, do more, go go go.

But ya know what?

By eliminating those underperforming elements in my business, it has actually supported me in creating what I call my “BOTH/AND” lifestyle.

In other words, working my business. AND taking care of my body.

Having a personal life. AND financial freedom.

Having quality time with my family. AND friends.

Getting grounded. AND living on the edge every once in a while. Not choosing between one or the other.

But literally living BOTH this. AND that.

We talked about this idea of a BOTH/AND lifestyle back in a June podcast episode, so be sure to check that out if you wanna know more about what that kind of lifestyle looks like.

Super high level recap of the “BOTH/AND” concept…

Most of us fall into this “either/or” mindset.

For example, you can either have fun… OR you can grow your biz.

You can either have a bikini-ready bod. OR enjoy your food.

You can either go to the family reunion. OR attend your BFF’s birthday.

You can either consistently show up in your biz. OR be in connection with your kids. 

I’m sure you can think of where you have an “either/or” mindset—and it’s holding you back from living the kind of life you want.

The idea behind creating a 10/10 life is to release attachment to old stories and beliefs. 

Literally rewire your brain to new possibilities.

It’s about believing that 100% is possible, 100% of the time

And decide—with no proof— that you can accomplish anything you set your mind to.  

That you can actually do it—that you WILL have your version of a 10/10 life.

This idea has really revolutionized how I live my life and run my biz. 

And since I’ve been sharing it, so many of YOU have told me it’s impacted you too.

I literally SEE the transformations inside my community.

I actually saw it A TON when I last ran my workshop, 100% is Possible, 100% of the Time.

Which, BTW, I’ve decided to reopen for a super limited time.

This online event takes place on July 27th at 10AM Pacific / 1PM Eastern.

Pop on over to – and get the free pass I’ve set aside for ya there.

That special link lets me know you were here listening today – so it’s straight up VIP access. FREE.

But not for long.

In just 2 days,  there will be a charge to get into this event.

But for the next 48 hours , I’m opening up exclusive free access to people who act fast, people who continually invest in themselves and their leadership, and to people who are committed to living their own 10/10 life

Is that you? 

Don’t let another opportunity pass you by… don’t wake up and two days and regret not taking me up on this opportunity. Grab your free spot today and commit to show up, on video, and experience this mind-shifting event. 

You can also DM me or comment the word ONEHUNDRED (no spaces) on any of my socials for your exclusive link.

In this 2.5 - 3 hour, highly interactive workshop, we will deep-dive into an area of your life that YOU want to upgrade to 100%. 

Oftentimes I have you focus on your bank account. Your relationship with money.Last time I did a deep dive with you guys around BE-ing in relationship. With your friends, family, spouse, significant other… And even yourself. 

We went deep. Got vulnerable. 

Really learned what it was like to take the masks off we’ve been wearing because of fears and insecurities.

What it's like to go all in. Play full out. Love. Be in generosity.

This time I want to dive deep into the topic of health + wellness.

Which, to me, includes way more than the food you put in your mouth. 

Or how strong your immune system is.It includes your mental health.  

Emotional health.  

The relationship you have with your body.

Your energy levels. 

And what we refer to now as longevity.  

Anti aging.Even reversing your biological age. 

You could take the time to upgrade your health + longevity…

Because when you don’t feel good, inside or out, it impacts everything in your life. 

And when your cells are healthy, your overall “health” as we refer to it, is solid. And everything else tends to flow more easily.

Because the health (or age) of your cells, really IS the foundation for evvveeerryyyything else.

So inside my 100% is Possible, 100% of the Time experience, we explore what 100% looks like to YOU in this area…

And then I’ll systematically guide you through the process of creating a 10/10 life you’re completely obsessed with. 

We’ll start with your vision – what a 10 out of 10 in your health + body (and even skin) looks like to you – and YOUR ideas about how to make it happen. 

And, you’ll drop in specific goals for the next 90 days to help you achieve your desired 10/10 outcome.

And THEN you’ll take those 90-day goals and map out what HABITS you get to create in order to make them happen.

Doing this alone can be HARD—but doing it with a group literally generates the energy you need to follow through.

When I ran this back in the spring, the messages I got were truly inspiring.

People walked away saying they finally felt like they had the clarity they had been looking for in order to move forward in their lives… after YEARS of being stuck.

Or lost. Or overwhelmed.

For example, Rebecca wrote in and said, “One of my takeaways (and there were many) is that I need to remember that I get to do the hard things. 

I have a tendency to delay taking action when faced with what might feel insurmountable, but inaction will never get me closer to my goals! 

Today I was reminded of my dreams and how to achieve them. That's empowering! Thanks ever so much!!! 

I got messages like this over and over again.

Hearing feedback like this makes it super clear to me that this work is absolutely necessary—and actually makes a difference. 

One thing to know about the 100% is Possible Workshop

It’s an intimate, AND deep, experience. And I truly believe that what you put into it is what you’ll get out of it.

Which is why if you sign up, you are committing to being all in. On camera. Interacting. Getting vulnerable. Holding space. Engaging.

And when you do, what I promise is you WILL leave with more energy and clarity than when you walked in.

We literally co-create change.

And I totally believe this little ripple we are creating together can turn into a super massive, super powerful wave… 

When we amplify the message—get it out to more people.

Not to mention that this workshop is the perfect first step into living that “BOTH/AND” mentality I was talking about…

So let’s talk a bit more about this “BOTH/AND” mentality.

The first step to getting what you want is to open your mind to the concept that you CAN have both.

Honestly, for many people, this is the hardest thing to do.

‘Cause it requires deprogramming your habits and your belief systems.

And realizing you are capable of creating anything you want. 

When you’re intentional in how you manifest your new reality. 

And that you deserve it.  

Because you do. 

You get to kick the old, outdated limiting beliefs to the side.

And commit to creating whatever it is you want. 

Even if others have told you in the past that it’s impossible. 

And what I’ll tell ya is that this BOTH/AND lifestyle concept requires SPACE.

Which is why clearing out what is no longer working…

Or no longer important to you, but has become repetitious habit…

Gets to go away.

So you literally have the whitespace to create something new.

If you don’t do that, you’ll experience compression. Resistance. 

It’s like trying to shove new clothes into a drawer that’s already jam packed.

Not gonna work.

You get to clear out the old—to make way for the new.

(Can you tell I’ve been cleaning out my closet lately? LOL)

Now I wanna address the fact that you may be resistant to let things go.

‘Cause I get it.

Letting go can be HARD. Sometimes scary.

You may be tempted to buy into the story, “But what if this is the wrong choice?” 

And continue to hang on – just in case.

But if you keep doing the same things… WHY would you expect different results?

I’m always asking my team: WHY are we doing what’s no longer working?It’s an opportunity.

Yeah, you heard me.

When something isn’t working, it means we have an opportunity to re-invent a new strategy.

So many of us—especially women—believe doing more makes us successful.

But what would it look like if we let go of this “busy is better” belief… and shift to a mindset of “Do less so you can do BETTER”?

Really be mindful of not filling your time with unimportant things.

And by unimportant things, I mean those that don’t fill up your life or your biz with results.

Things that don’t take you closer toward your vision – and your 10/10 lifestyle.

The more you figure out what you can delegate or let go of… the more time you’ll create for yourself.

And the needle movers that make a real difference.

I can’t tell you what those needle movers are for you.

Or what success looks like to you.

YOU get to decide and then create that.

And I’m totally down to help ya.

That’s what we’ll do inside my 100% is Possible, 100% of the Time Workshop.

Which, again, is happening on Thursday, July 27th.

If you’re looking to sit back, kick back, and have someone else figure it out for ya…

I hate to tell ya, this event isn’t for you.

This event is for committed, go-getters who are 100% committed to creating a life they’re obsessed with.

They believe it’s possible.

And want help with creating a specific game plan – with specific actions – to

THAT is what we will do together.

So if you’re fully in… lemme know you want to come.


Because there’s no charge to attend if you sign up today.  

But there will be in just 48 hours.  

I set it up this way because urgency is extremely important when seeking to move your life forward… 

So jump on this opportunity and drop your name and email over at 

Or comment the word ONEHUNDRED (all one word, no spaces) on my socials.

Or DM me – that works too.

That’s how I’ll know you were listening in today – and you are IN!

Because if you’re aligned with this idea of creating a 10/10 lifestyle that’s meaningful to YOU…

You’re exactly who we want to be there.

Ok my friends, that’s it for me today.

Until next time, I’ll see ya online!