How to Achieve a 10/10 Life + Unlock Financial Freedom

Hey, my friends! I’m Hayley Hobson and I’m so glad you’re here! Welcome to the Whole You Podcast where I'm paving the way in the holistic wellness space for ambitious women, like you, to look + feel younger, so you can achieve a 10/10 lifestyle (and unlock financial freedom).

Soooooo… did ya notice I have a new opening for my podcast?

I did a little soul-searching recently… literally took myself OUT of the information input stage…

And got quiet.

Created whitespace for myself.

To reflect on my business and what I wanted out of it.

What really matters to me.

The truth is… for the last few months, I felt like I was changing.

And couldn’t pinpoint exactly what was going on.

The content I created, while I do love it… didn’t fit like a glove anymore.

And what I realized was… I kept searching OUT THERE for the answers – trying what other people recommended.

And what I REALLY needed to do was go inside.

And that’s where the idea of “paving the way in the holistic wellness space for ambitious women, like you, to look + feel younger, so they can achieve a 10/10 life” came from.

10 out of 10 really is my motto.

And has been for a really long time – I just didn’t have the right words for it.

Here’s what that means to me.

It means not settling for what’s handed to you. 

Blindly accepting what you’re first offered.

It even means not settling for what YOU create. 

But choosing to continue to uplevel. Everything.

It means intentionally creating a life you’re obsessed with.

Because, what I’ve noticed in life, is that most of us skate by.

Don’t put in the energy to create something they’d consider a 10 out of 10.

Because that’s work – and work feels HARD.

We settle for meh relationships – that are eh, fine… but not FIRE.

We believe the lie that we only deserve to make so much money – and whether that number for you is 40k a year or 400k… 

Chances are, you’ll default to the level of your own expectations.

Or take on someone ELSE’S expectations of what you deserve to earn.

We all carry these stories and excuses slash reasons and limiting beliefs with us.

But I’m calling bullshit on this.

I’m challenging you to raise your vibration.

Raise your expectations.

To BELIEVE you are completely capable of achieving a 10 out of 10 life.

And you have everything you need – right now – to create it.

You don’t have to wait for someday.

Or some outside circumstance to fall into place for the universe to grant you the honor of having what you want.

First of all, the universe doesn’t work like that.

I’m all about manifesting, but girl – you gotta put in the effort too.

A 10 out of 10 life means living a life you’re completely OBSESSED.

Grateful that you get to live it.

Stoked that you get to live it.

Maybe a little in awe that you have what you have.

You’re surrounded by amazing people who blow your mind and make your heart effing explode because they’re so incredible.

You FEEL passion – you FEEL love.

You’re connected and deeply honored that you get to GIVE love and passion. And have it welcomed, accepted, and freely given back.

I have to tell you the truth about something.

For a long time, I didn’t talk about the areas of my life that weren’t 10 out of 10.

I focused on the areas that were doing well because I felt I was successful there.

I kind of gave up on the areas that weren’t amazing – literally gave away my power and accepted that certain areas of my life were a wash.

And you know what?

I got sick of that. Literally.

And I realized – it’s up to me.

If I want a phenomenal relationship with my in-laws, I get to create that.

I get to be a person who has a phenomenal relationship with my in-laws.

I get to show up, put in the effort, love them for who they are – exactly as they are… and be my vulnerable, authentic self.

I know that sounds overly simplistic, but damn it’s really hard when you have conditioned yourself to not take the blame.

To not be wrong.

And you know what?

After 15 years, I’m turning that around.

I’d say we’re at an 8.5 out of 10 right now.

And it’s getting better every day.

Because I CHOSE it.

And I continue to choose it.

It all comes down to one simple question: Who do you want to be?

Do you think Olympic athletes want to be average?

No, they want to be world-class.

So they funnel every single decision – from what they eat… to when they get up… to sacrificing hobbies and social lives and relationships – so they can be the best in the world.

Now, I’m not saying you have to do that. (although why not?)

What I AM saying is that you can leverage that same mindset.

Answer that question of “Who do I want to be?” for yourself?

Do you want to be a person of integrity?

Someone who does what she says and stands by her word?

Then that means you show up on time to lunch with your friend.

You deliver on your promise – whether that’s taking your kid to ice cream for getting straight As… or hitting your deadline.

Do you want to be a person others can confide in?

That means you don’t blow up or go off when someone tells you something you don’t want to hear.

It means keeping things in confidence – even if the tea is super hot and juicy. LOL

Do you want to be a role model for your children?

That means modeling the behavior you want to instill in them.

Like, if you want your daughter to have a beautiful, healthy marriage someday?Guess what you get to create at home?

It’s show, not tell.

Do you want to have the kind of lifestyle that lets you not stress about money?

Take a fabulous vacation each year? 

Live in a house you’re obsessed with – you know, the ones you drool over on Zillow. LOL

That takes money, my friend!

How do you get money?

Sure, you show up and put in the work.

AND you get to BE a person who makes a lot of money.  

What kind of person is that?

‘Cause I believe that if you put out that kind of energy… it attracts people.

If your intention is just to make money, that energy conveys.

People literally feel it – and it’s a mega turnoff.

So how can you serve? WHO can you serve?

What PURPOSE does the work you do serve?

The beauty of the 10 out of 10 concept is… YOU GET TO DETERMINE WHAT THIS LOOKS LIKE FOR YOU.

For me, I wanted to create 10 out of 10 relationships.

With my daughter and stepdaughter.

With my husband.

With my mom.

So I CHOSE to put in the work.

BE a person who is connected in relationship.

So, that means reaching out. Connecting. Finding inroads and connection points with them.

And what THEY’RE interested in.

I chose to give my most valuable asset… my attention.

My friend, this is a wake-up call.

Wake UP to your own life.

Wake UP to what is around you.

There is SO MUCH happening around us, and we just don’t pay attention.

Why is that?I can’t answer that for you.

But what I CAN do for you is help you wake UP to the fact that you GET to have a 10 out of 10 life.

Now, I totally get that you might be like, “WHOA – Hayley, you’re, like, totally intense RN.” LOL

And I am intense about this – because I’m deeply passionate about it.

And I want you to be too.

You deserve more.

What you don’t deserve is numbing yourself to your own life.

Evaluate what’s important to you. Look at all areas of your life.

Where are YOU not achieving a 10 out of 10?Where do you WANT to get to a 10 first?
  • Your marriage?
  • Your finances?
  • Your work satisfaction?
  • Your relationship with your parents?
  • Your body image?
  • Your mental health?
  • Your relationship with time?

You get to choose this for yourself.

And once you have that idea, what is ONE THING you can do – right now, not someday… not when XYZ happens – but do RIGHT NOW…

To take a step toward that 10 out of 10 area?

For example, my mental health started falling apart in my 20s…

Your time is NOW.

Life is NOW.

I want to let you know that this is my mission. In my work, my platform, and my life.

If you’re in with me on this, I want you to be all the way in.

I want you to be passionate about living your life this way, too.

I want to be part of a community of 10 out of 10ers.

Do you?If so, I have something super special I’m cooking up for you.

I literally CAN’T tell you what it is yet.

BUT – if you’re like me and you can’t stand an unresolved cliffhanger (LOL)... drop me the word SECRET on any of my social posts.

Or DM me @hayleyhobson.

IG, FB, TikTok, wherever…And I’ll give you a little sneak preview.

‘Cause it’s gonna epic. 

And I wanna take you with me on the journey.

Alright… that’s it for me today.

I can’t wait to FINALLY share what’s been going on in the background soon…

But until then, I’ll see ya online.